Author Archives: jossmcd

Dear Santa, It’s December 28th and I’ve recovered enough from the holidays to thank you for finally bringing me the Christmas present of my dreams! Year after year I’ve asked you to give me my one Christmas wish. It’s never happened and I wasn’t sure if you couldn’t find my house (yes, I know I’veContinueContinue reading “31, 31, — 28!”

Have you ever dated someone and when it ended, you were worried you would run into them? Maybe you live in a small town like I do, so you know there’s a good chance you’ll end up seeing them at that one cafe you always go to? Or the supermarket? Maybe passing them on theContinueContinue reading “I got 99 problems but a dick ain’t one!”

I had a dream the other night I was dating someone… In it, I remember talking to my girlfriends about him. I remember them asking if I had had sex with him yet. I hadn’t, because I didn’t know him well enough to trust he wasn’t a player. It turns out that my friends knewContinueContinue reading “Sex (less) in the City- 2 -The Saga continues”

If you’ve read some of my posts before, you might remember me telling you about a few memorable or even game changer kisses— There was that one time when I went on multiple dates with four “Bachelors” over ten days, and when Bachelor #1 kissed me on our fourth date, I was breathless after. ThenContinueContinue reading “And then He kissed Me”

Dating was difficult in 2020 and prospects still don’t look much better at the start of 2021. The last person I dated also ended in catastrophe- so much so, I’m not sure when I’ll be emotionally capable to write about it here. Instead, I want to share about one of the nicest dates I’ve everContinueContinue reading “Chivalry isn’t Dead”

The first time I fell in love I was seven years old. Okay, maybe it wasn’t actually love. A crush? Puppy love? What would you call it? — What I do know is, his name was Gary, he was two years older than me, and also the neighbor boy of my grandparents. Shortly after startingContinueContinue reading “The First Time I Fell in Love”

All right guys! Guys as in men! Isolation is almost over everywhere around the world, dating is getting back into full swing again. It’s the perfect time to spruce up and sort out your profiles on Tinder, or Bumble, or whatever app you use to date, — or get laid on. Let’s be honest, becauseContinueContinue reading “Tinder Profiles -101- for Men!”

There once was a girl who, a few years earlier, had been on a fairytale date with a handsome, charming man, whilst on holiday in Australia. They kept in touch over the years, and finally the time had come for them to meet again- this time in Singapore. As the girl was currently living inContinueContinue reading “Once upon a time in Singapore…”

So you guys probably guessed from the title, that this post is obviously not about me finding Mr. Right. In my debut post I talked about my Mr. Right checklist and some of the things he needs to tick off to be eligible to be the one. As it’s been almost a year since thatContinueContinue reading “The One that isn’t the One”

I was once asked by a guy on Tinder “What is the one thing you would most like to be asked?” This was in reference to someone you were dating or interested in. Still in our infancy messaging stage, it was refreshing to have posed what eventually became a few meaningful questions. It was alsoContinueContinue reading “Love, actually”